11 Chapter 11: Nonverbal Delivery
“The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn’t said.”
—Peter F. Drucker
“But behavior in the human being is sometimes a defense, a way of concealing motives and thoughts.”
—Abraham Maslow
“Electric communication will never be a substitute for the face of someone who, with their soul, encourages another person to be brave and true.”
—Charles Dickens
Opening Case Study: The Foundry Premiere
Zephyrine Okafor-Lindqvist pushed open the heavy rolling door of the old steel foundry and stepped into the space she had converted, beam by beam, into the home of the Crucible Dance Collective. It was 5:30 p.m. on a Thursday in Youngstown, Ohio, and she had exactly ninety minutes before a tech billionaire walked into this building and decided whether her company would survive the year.
The plan had been simple three weeks ago. Wendell Ashworth-Nakagawa, who had made his fortune in precision optical sensors before pivoting to arts philanthropy, was flying in Friday morning for a private preview of the Crucible’s new work, Heat / Memory. Zephyrine’s co-founder and longtime creative partner, Bartholomew Yusupov-Adedayo, would deliver the lecture-demonstration. Bartholomew was the talker. He could explain a piece like he was telling you about a dream he had last night—warm, specific, unhurried. Zephyrine made the work; Bartholomew sold it. Together, they had turned an abandoned foundry on Poland Avenue into one of the most watched small dance companies in the Midwest.
Then, six days ago, Bartholomew was loading a video projector onto a high shelf when a mounting bracket gave way. He caught the projector with his face. He was home now, sitting in a darkened room with gauze patches over both eyes, waiting to learn whether the detached retina in his left eye would heal. He could speak on the phone. He could not stand on a stage.
Two days after Bartholomew’s accident, Ignatius Mwangi-Petrovic—the principal dancer who carried the twelve-minute centerpiece solo of Heat / Memory—rolled his ankle during a marking session. The MRI came back Wednesday afternoon: partial ligament tear, four to six weeks. Zephyrine’s understudy for the solo was Cordelia Takahashi-Osei, a nineteen-year-old apprentice in her first season with the company. Cordelia had danced the role twice in studio run-throughs. She had never performed it in front of another human being outside the company.
Zephyrine had spent the past seventy-two hours teaching herself to be Bartholomew. She had a script. She had rehearsed it with the script taped to her bathroom mirror. She had rehearsed it pacing the length of her hallway, timing her sentences to the measure counts in her head. Every time she opened her mouth to describe Heat / Memory out loud, the words felt like someone else’s shoes. Her shoulders rode up toward her ears. Her hands balled into fists she didn’t notice until her forearms started to ache. When she watched herself on her phone, she barely recognized the woman in the frame—stiff, apologetic, speaking into her own sternum.
The Crucible had three months of payroll left. Desdemona Kalanithi-Brennan, the board chair, had been clear about the math. If Wendell committed to the three-season underwriting package—$4.8 million across the 2027 through 2030 seasons, with a challenge-grant structure to encourage other donors to match—the collective would survive and quite possibly flourish. If he didn’t, Desdemona would have to start the conversation about winding down operations before the end of the summer. No pressure, she had said, in the tone of voice board chairs use when they mean the opposite.
Wendell’s reputation preceded him. He asked hostile questions on purpose. He did it, Desdemona warned, because he had learned that watching how a leader’s body responded under pressure told him more about the organization than any business plan. He would ask why the world needed another dance company. He would ask what made Heat / Memory worth $4.8 million when three local food banks could use the same money. He would time his questions to land in the silence after Zephyrine thought she had finished speaking. He would watch her eyes.
So Zephyrine walked into the foundry at 5:30 tonight expecting a last quiet tech rehearsal. One final chance to run the cues, walk Cordelia through the lifts, and find a place inside her own body where her voice could live for ninety minutes tomorrow morning without trembling.
What she found was Cordelia sitting on an equipment case by the lighting rig with both hands over her face, crying so hard her whole back shook. The apprentice’s pointe shoes were still untied. Her hair was coming out of its pin. When she looked up at Zephyrine, her eyes were pink and her mascara was a long dark streak down her left cheek. “I can’t do the lift,” she said. “I froze last night in the studio and I didn’t tell anyone. If I freeze tomorrow I’m going to drop her. I’m going to drop Matilda from six feet and she’s going to hit the deck and it’s going to be because I—”
Zephyrine’s phone vibrated in her back pocket. She pulled it out on reflex. A text from a number she had saved as Wendell asst – Priya:
Hi Zephyrine — Mr. Ashworth-Nakagawa’s schedule has compressed. He’d like to come see the preview tonight at 7:00 instead of tomorrow morning. I know it’s short notice. Can you accommodate? He says he’s happy to see a rough tech if that’s what you’re running — he just wants to be in the room. Please confirm.
Zephyrine looked up from the screen. The foundry’s clerestory windows were already going orange with the early April sunset. Cordelia was still crying. Somewhere behind the lighting rig, she could hear her stage manager Tomás dragging a dance floor seam into place and muttering to himself about gaffer tape. Her phone was still in her hand. The little cursor in the text box was blinking at her, patient, asking her to say yes or no to ninety minutes.
She had spent her entire career teaching dancers that the body tells the truth before the mouth catches up. Now she was about to find out what her own body was going to tell Wendell Ashworth-Nakagawa when he walked through that rolling door.
Case Questions to Hold as You Read
- What is Zephyrine’s own body already communicating to her about her readiness for this meeting? How might she read those signals before Wendell reads them?
- Cordelia’s tears are a nonverbal affect display, but her fear about dropping the lift is also a physical reality. How should Zephyrine separate the emotional message from the technical one?
- Wendell is arriving in ninety minutes and he is known to read body language for information. What can Zephyrine control in the time she has, and what has to be let go?
- How will the foundry itself—its size, its acoustics, its industrial history—shape the nonverbal conversation between a billionaire donor and a dance company the moment he walks through the door?
Before You Read: Diagnostic Self-Check
Quick Self-Assessment
Rate each statement from 1 (not at all true of me) to 5 (very true of me). There are no right answers. You will revisit this at the end of the chapter.
- I can name at least five distinct categories of nonverbal communication without looking them up.
- I notice when my own body language contradicts what I am saying out loud, and I can adjust it in real time.
- I know how close is “too close” in a professional conversation in my own culture, and I can name at least one culture where those expectations are different from mine.
- When I give a presentation, I plan my movement on the stage as deliberately as I plan my words.
- I can design a slide deck that supports what I am saying instead of competing with it.
- I know what my face does when I am nervous, and I know how it reads to other people.
- I can identify at least three nonverbal signals that someone is losing interest in what I am saying.
- I understand the difference between an emblem, an illustrator, and an adaptor.
Add up your score. A total of 32 or higher suggests you already have a working vocabulary for nonverbal communication; this chapter will sharpen it. A total of 24 to 31 suggests you notice nonverbal communication in the moment but may not yet have a framework for naming and using it on purpose. A total below 24 means the next forty pages are going to give you a toolkit you did not know you were missing.
Getting Started
Introductory Exercises
- Choose a presentation to watch. This could be a famous speech by a historical figure, a TED Talk, a viral moment from a political debate, or a presentation from a technology conference. Watch the video without sound and observe the speaker’s nonverbal communication. Does the speaker seem comfortable and confident? What body language do you notice? Then watch it a second time with the sound on. Did your perceptions change? What patterns do you observe?
- Invasion of space. When someone “invades” your space, how do you feel? Threatened, surprised, interested, or repulsed? We can learn a lot from each other as we become more aware of normative space expectations and boundaries. Set aside ten minutes where you can “people watch” in a public setting. Make a conscious effort to notice how far apart they stand from people they communicate with. Record your results. Your best estimate is fine, and there’s no need to interrupt people—just watch and record. Consider noting if they’re male or female, or focus only on same-sex conversations. When you have approximate distances for at least twenty conversations or ten minutes have passed, add up the results and look for a pattern. Compare your findings with those of a classmate.
In the first of the Note 11.1 “Introductory Exercises” for this chapter, we focus on how a speaker presents ideas, not the ideas themselves. Have you ever been in class and found it hard to listen to the professor, not because they weren’t well-informed or the topic wasn’t interesting or important to you, but because the style of presentation didn’t engage you as a listener? If your answer is yes, then you know you want to avoid making the same mistake when you give a presentation. It’s not always what you say, but how you say it, that makes a difference. We sometimes call this “body language” or “nonverbal communication,” and it’s a key aspect of effective business communication.
How do you know when your boss or instructors are pleased with your progress (or not)? You might learn from the smiles on their faces, from the time and attention they give you, or perhaps in other nonverbal ways, like a raise, a bonus, or a good grade. Whether the interaction takes place face-to-face or at a distance, you can still experience and interpret nonverbal responses.
Sometimes we place more emphasis on nonverbal aspects of communication than they warrant. Imagine you’ve just sent a follow-up email to a potential employer after an interview. You feel the interview went well, and you send a brief, professional note. A day passes with no response. Does the lack of an immediate reply mean you’re no longer being considered? While you might overthink the delay, it’s more likely that the recruiter has a different sense of time urgency or is simply busy. This demonstrates that a time interval in communication often has less intentional meaning than we might assign to it.
Does the lack of an immediate response have any meaning? Does it mean Amanda is less interested in you than you are in her? While you might give it more attention than it deserves, and maybe let it weigh on your mind and distract you from other tasks, the time interval for responding may not have as much intentional meaning as you think. It might mean that Amanda has a different sense of time urgency than you do, or that she didn’t receive your message until later.
Timing is an important aspect of nonverbal communication, but trying to understand the meaning of a single example of timing is challenging. Context may make a difference. For example, if you’ve known someone for years who has always responded promptly to your emails or texts, but now that person hasn’t responded in over a day, you may have reason for concern. That person’s behavior doesn’t match what you’re familiar with, and this sudden, unexplained change in the established pattern may mean that you need to follow up.
11.1 Principles of Nonverbal Communication
Learning Objectives
- Define nonverbal communication and describe its role in the communication process.
- Explain the core principles of nonverbal communication: fluidity, speed, the ability to add to or replace verbal messages, universality, contextual ambiguity, intentional and unintentional transmission, and primacy over verbal content in conveying feelings.
- Distinguish among regulators, affect displays, self-adaptors, object-adaptors, emblems, and illustrators, and recognize each category in real-world interactions.
- Identify at least four behavioral indicators associated with deception and explain why no single indicator is a reliable “tell.”
- Apply the principles of nonverbal communication to a high-stakes speaker/audience scenario such as the Crucible Dance Collective case.
Nonverbal Communication Is Fluid
Chances are, you’ve had many experiences where words were misunderstood or where the meaning of words was unclear. When it comes to nonverbal communication, meaning is even harder to discern. We can sometimes tell what people are communicating through their nonverbal communication, but there’s no foolproof “dictionary” of how to interpret nonverbal messages. Nonverbal communication is the process of conveying a message without the use of words. It can include gestures and facial expressions, tone of voice, timing, posture, and where you stand as you communicate. It can help or hinder the clear understanding of your message, but it doesn’t reveal (and can even mask) what you’re really thinking. Nonverbal communication is far from simple, and its complexity makes our study and our understanding a worthy but challenging goal.
Where does a wink start and a nod end? Nonverbal communication involves the entire body, the space it occupies and dominates, the time it interacts, and not only what is not said, but how it’s not said. Confused? Try to focus on just one element of nonverbal communication, and it will soon get lost among all the other stimuli. Let’s consider eye contact. What does it mean by itself, without context, chin position, or eyebrows to flag interest or signal a threat? Nonverbal action flows almost seamlessly from one to the next, making it a challenge to interpret one element, or even a series of elements.
Case Connection: What Zephyrine’s Shoulders Already Know
When Zephyrine rehearsed her lecture-demonstration script in the hallway, her shoulders rode up and her hands balled into fists she didn’t notice. Those are not single, isolated signals she can label and fix. They are the fluid nonverbal conversation her body is already having with the room she will walk into tomorrow night—stress flowing into posture flowing into breath flowing into vocal pitch. If she tries to “fix her shoulders” as an isolated element, she’ll end up with stiff shoulders and a new problem somewhere else. She has to address the stream, not one drop of it.
We perceive time as linear, flowing along in a straight line. We did one task, we’re doing another task now, and we’re planning on doing something else all the time. Sometimes we place more emphasis on the future, or the past, forgetting that we’re actually living in the present moment, whether we focus on “the now” or not. Nonverbal communication is constantly in motion, as long as we are, and is never the same twice.
Nonverbal communication is irreversible. In written communication, you can write a clarification, correction, or retraction. While it never completely eliminates the original statement, it does allow for correction. Unlike written communication, oral communication may allow “do-overs” on the spot: you can explain and restate, hoping to clarify your point. You can also dig the hole you’re in just a little bit deeper. The old sayings “when you find yourself in a hole, stop digging” and “open mouth, insert foot” can sometimes apply to oral communications. We’ve all said something we’d give anything to take back, but we all know we can’t. Oral communication, like written communication, allows for some correction, but it still doesn’t erase the original message or its impact. Nonverbal communication takes it one step further. You can’t separate one nonverbal action from the context of all the other verbal and nonverbal communication acts, and you can’t take it back.
In a speech, nonverbal communication is continuous in the sense that it’s always occurring. Because it’s so fluid, it can be hard to determine where one nonverbal message starts and another stops. Words can be easily identified and isolated, but if we try to single out a speaker’s gestures, smile, or stance without looking at how they all come together in context, we may miss the point and draw the wrong conclusion. You need to be conscious of this aspect of public speaking because, to quote another old saying, “Actions speak louder than words.” This is true in the sense that people often pay more attention to your nonverbal expressions than your words. As a result, nonverbal communication is a powerful way to contribute to (or detract from) your success in communicating your message to the audience.
Nonverbal Communication Is Fast
Let’s pretend you’re at your computer at work. You see that an email has arrived, but you’re right in the middle of tallying a spreadsheet whose numbers don’t add up. You see that the email is from a coworker, and you click on it. The subject line of an email from your manager reads “Urgent: Meeting.” Your immediate response might be to feel anxious. You’d likely assume it signals a problem, rather than a suggestion for a party. Your face would give away your feelings of concern even before you had time to process the message fully.
Your emotional response is immediate. If the author of the email could see your face, they’d know that your response was one of disbelief and frustration, even anger, all via your nonverbal communication. Yes, when a tree falls in the forest, it makes a sound, even if no one is there to hear it. In the same way, you express yourself via nonverbal communication all the time without much conscious thought at all. You may think about how to share the news with your partner, and try to display a smile and a sense of calm when you don’t feel like smiling.
Nonverbal communication gives our thoughts and feelings away before we’re even aware of what we’re thinking or how we feel. People may see and hear more than you ever anticipated. Your nonverbal communication includes both intentional and unintentional messages. Still, since it all happens so fast, the unintentional ones can contradict what you know you’re supposed to say or how you’re supposed to react.
Pro Tip: The Two-Second Window
Your face reads a surprise before your brain does. Trial consultants who train expert witnesses use a simple drill: practice the first two seconds of your response to a hostile question in front of a mirror until you can blunt the startle reflex. You are not learning to fake calm. You are learning to give yourself a heartbeat to decide what your face is going to do next. When Wendell asks Zephyrine why the world needs another dance company, the two seconds after the question lands will tell him more than the twenty seconds that follow.
Nonverbal Communication Can Add to or Replace Verbal Communication
People tend to pay more attention to how you say it than what you actually say. In presenting a speech, this is particularly true. We communicate nonverbally more than we engage in verbal communication, and often use nonverbal expressions to add to, or even replace, words we might otherwise say. We use a nonverbal gesture called an illustrator to communicate our message effectively and reinforce our point. Your coworker Andrew may ask you, “Barney’s Bar after work?” as he walks by, and you nod and say, “Yeah.” Andrew may respond with a nonverbal gesture, called an emblem, by signaling with the “OK” sign as he walks away.
In addition to illustrators or emblematic nonverbal communication, we also use regulators. “Regulators are nonverbal messages which control, maintain or discourage interaction.”[1] For example, if someone is telling you a message that’s confusing or upsetting, you may hold up your hand, a commonly recognized regulator that asks the speaker to stop talking.
Let’s say you’re in a meeting presenting a speech that introduces your company’s latest product. If your audience members nod their heads in agreement on essential points and maintain good eye contact, it’s a good sign. Nonverbally, they’re using regulators encouraging you to continue with your presentation. In contrast, if they look away, tap their feet, and begin drawing in the margins of their notebook, these are regulators suggesting that you’d better think of a way to regain their interest or else wrap up your presentation quickly.
“Affect displays are nonverbal communication that express emotions or feelings.”[2] An affect display that might accompany holding up your hand for silence would be to frown and shake your head from side to side. When you and Andrew are at Barney’s Bar, smiling and waving at coworkers who arrive lets them know where you’re seated and welcomes them.
“Adaptors are displays of nonverbal communication that help you adapt to your environment and each context, helping you feel comfortable and secure.”[3] A self-adaptor involves you meeting your need for security—by playing with your hair, for example—by adapting something about yourself in a way for which it wasn’t designed or for no apparent purpose. Combing your hair would be an example of a purposeful action, unlike a self-adaptive behavior. An object-adaptor involves using an object in a way for which it wasn’t designed. You may see audience members tapping their pencils, chewing on them, or playing with them while ignoring you and your presentation. Or perhaps someone pulls out a comb and repeatedly rubs a thumbnail against the comb’s teeth. They’re using the comb or the pencil in a way other than its intended design, an object-adaptor that communicates a lack of engagement or enthusiasm in your speech.
Intentional nonverbal communication can complement, repeat, replace, mask, or contradict what we say. When Andrew invited you to Barney’s, you said, “Yeah” and nodded, complementing and repeating the message. You could have nodded, effectively replacing the “yes” with a nonverbal response. You could also have decided to say no, but didn’t want to hurt Andrew’s feelings. Shaking your head “no” while pointing to your watch, communicating work and time issues, may mask your real thoughts or feelings. Masking involves the substitution of appropriate nonverbal communication for nonverbal communication you may want to display.[4] Finally, nonverbal messages that conflict with verbal communication can confuse the listener. Table 11.1 “Some Nonverbal Expressions” summarizes these concepts.
| Term | Definition |
|---|---|
| Adaptors | Help us feel comfortable or indicate emotions or moods |
| Affect Displays | Express emotions or feelings |
| Complementing | Reinforcing verbal communication |
| Contradicting | Contradicting verbal communication |
| Emblems | Nonverbal gestures that carry a specific meaning, and can replace or reinforce words |
| Illustrators | Reinforce a verbal message |
| Masking | Substituting more appropriate displays for less appropriate displays |
| Object-Adaptors | Using an object for a purpose other than its intended design |
| Regulators | Control, encourage or discourage interaction |
| Repeating | Repeating verbal communication |
| Replacing | Replacing verbal communication |
| Self-Adaptors | Adapting something about yourself in a way for which it was not designed or for no apparent purpose |
Try It: Name the Category
For each action below, name the category from Table 11.1. Answers at the bottom.
- A manager gives a thumbs-up across a noisy warehouse floor to approve a decision.
- A job candidate twists a paper clip into a spiral during a difficult interview question.
- A team member nods steadily while a colleague explains a process, encouraging them to keep going.
- A professor tells the class “I’m fine” with a pinched smile immediately after reading a difficult email.
- A speaker holds both hands shoulder-width apart while saying “the data ranged from here to here.”
Answers: 1) emblem, 2) object-adaptor, 3) regulator, 4) masking (with a contradicting affect display), 5) illustrator.
Nonverbal Communication Is Universal
Consider the many contexts in which interaction occurs during your day. In the morning, at work, after work, at home, with friends, with family—our list could go on for quite awhile. Now consider the differences in nonverbal communication across these many contexts. When you’re at work, do you jump up and down and say whatever you want? Why or why not? You may not engage in that behavior because of expectations at work. Still, the fact remains that from the moment you wake until you sleep, you’re surrounded by nonverbal communication.
If you’d been born in a different country, to different parents, and perhaps as a member of the opposite sex, your whole world would be quite different. Yet nonverbal communication would remain a universal constant. It may not look the same, or get used in the same way, but it will still be nonverbal communication in its many functions and displays.
Nonverbal Communication Is Confusing and Contextual
Nonverbal communication can be confusing. We need contextual clues to help us understand, or begin to understand, what a movement, gesture, or lack of display means. Then we have to figure it all out based on our prior knowledge (or lack thereof) of the person and hope to get it right. Talk about a challenge. Nonverbal communication is everywhere, and we all use it, but that doesn’t make it simple or independent of when, where, why, or how we communicate.
Nonverbal Communication Can Be Intentional or Unintentional
Suppose you’re working as a salesclerk in a retail store, and a customer communicates frustration to you. Would the nonverbal aspects of your response be intentional or unintentional? Your job is to be pleasant and courteous at all times, yet your wrinkled eyebrows or wide eyes may have been unintentional. They clearly communicate your negative feelings at that moment. Restating your wish to be helpful and displaying nonverbal gestures may communicate “no big deal,” but the stress of the moment is still “written” on your face.
Can we tell when people are intentionally or unintentionally communicating nonverbally? Ask ten people this question and compare their responses. You may be surprised. It’s clearly a challenge to understand nonverbal communication in action. We often assign intentional motives to nonverbal communication when in fact their display is unintentional, and often hard to interpret.
Nonverbal Messages Communicate Feelings and Attitudes
Steven Beebe, Susan Beebe, and Mark Redmond offer us three additional principles of interpersonal nonverbal communication that serve our discussion. One is that you often react faster than you think. Your nonverbal responses communicate your initial reaction before you can process it through language or formulate an appropriate response. If your appropriate, spoken response doesn’t match your nonverbal reaction, you may give away your true feelings and attitudes.[5]
Albert Mehrabian asserts that we rarely communicate emotional messages through the spoken word. According to Mehrabian, 93 percent of the time we communicate our emotions nonverbally, with at least 55 percent associated with facial gestures. Vocal cues, body position and movement, and normative space between speaker and receiver can also be clues to feelings and attitudes.[6]
Is your first emotional response always an accurate and true representation of your feelings and attitudes, or does your emotional response change across time? We’re all changing all the time, and sometimes a moment of frustration or a flash of anger can signal to the receiver a feeling or emotion that existed for a moment, but has since passed. Their response to your communication will be based on that perception, even though you might already have moved on from the issue. This is where the spoken word serves us well. You may need to articulate clearly that you were frustrated, but not anymore. The words spoken out loud can serve to clarify and invite additional discussion.
Common Mistake: Reading Mehrabian Wrong
Mehrabian’s famous “93 percent” finding is one of the most misquoted numbers in business communication. It does not mean that 93 percent of all communication is nonverbal. It means that when a speaker’s verbal and nonverbal messages conflict around feelings and attitudes, listeners trust the nonverbal side of the conflict. In a straight content briefing about quarterly numbers, the words still carry most of the load. The Mehrabian finding matters in moments like Zephyrine facing Wendell: she may say “we’re ready” but if her body says otherwise, the body wins.
We Believe Nonverbal Communication More than Verbal
Building on the example of responding to a situation with facial gestures associated with frustration before you even have time to think of an appropriate verbal response, let’s ask the question: what would you believe, someone’s actions or their words? According to William Seiler and Melissa Beall, most people tend to believe the nonverbal message over the verbal message. People will often answer that “actions speak louder than words” and place a disproportionate emphasis on the nonverbal response.[7] Humans aren’t logical all the time, and they do experience feelings and attitudes that change. Still, we place more confidence in nonverbal communication, particularly when it comes to lying behaviors. According to Miron Zuckerman, Bella DePaulo, and Robert Rosenthal, there are several behaviors people often display when they’re being deceptive:[8]
- Reduction in eye contact while engaged in a conversation
- Awkward pauses in conversation
- Higher pitch in voice
- Deliberate pronunciation and articulation of words
- Increased delay in response time to a question
- Increased body movements like changes in posture
- Decreased smiling
- Decreased rate of speech
If you notice one or more of these behaviors, you may want to take a closer look. Over time, we learn people’s patterns of speech and behavior, and form a set of expectations. Variation from their established patterns, combined with the clues above, can alert you to the possibility that something deserves closer attention.
Our nonverbal responses are linked to our physiological responses to stress, such as heart rate, blood pressure, and skin conductivity. Polygraph machines (popularly referred to as “lie detectors”) focus on these physiological responses and demonstrate anomalies, or variations. While movies and TV crime shows may make polygraphs look foolproof, there’s significant debate about whether they measure dishonesty with any degree of accuracy.
Can you train yourself to detect lies? It’s unlikely. Our purpose in studying nonverbal communication isn’t to uncover dishonesty in others, but rather to help you understand how to use the nonverbal aspects of communication to increase understanding.
Nonverbal Communication Is Key in the Speaker/Audience Relationship
When we first see each other, before anyone says a word, we’re already sizing each other up. Within the first few seconds, we’ve made judgments about each other based on what we wear, our physical characteristics, and even our posture. Are these judgments accurate? That’s hard to know without context, but we can say that nonverbal communication certainly affects first impressions, for better or worse. When a speaker and the audience first meet, nonverbal communication in terms of space, dress, and even personal characteristics can contribute to assumed expectations. The expectations might not be accurate or even fair, but it’s essential to recognize that they’ll be present. There’s truth in the saying, “You never get a second chance to make a first impression.” Since beginnings are fragile times, your attention to aspects you can control, both verbal and nonverbal, will help contribute to the first step of forming a relationship with your audience. Your eye contact with audience members, use of space, and degree of formality will continue to contribute to that relationship.
As a speaker, your nonverbal communication is part of the message and can contribute to, or detract from, your overall goals. By being aware of them and practicing with a live audience, you can learn to be more aware and in control.
Reflection Write: The First Four Seconds
Think about the last time you met a person who was about to decide something about you—an interviewer, a new manager, a customer, a professor on day one. What did your body tell them in the first four seconds before you opened your mouth? Write three to four sentences describing what you think they saw. Then write one sentence about what you wish they had seen. The gap between the two is where deliberate nonverbal practice lives.
Key Takeaways
- Nonverbal communication is the process of conveying a message without the use of words; it relates to the dynamic process of communication, the perception process and listening, and verbal communication.
- Nonverbal communication is fluid and fast, universal, confusing, and contextual. It can add to or replace verbal communication and can be intentional or unintentional.
- Nonverbal communication communicates feelings and attitudes, and people tend to believe nonverbal messages more than verbal ones.
Exercises
- Does it limit or enhance our understanding of communication to view nonverbal communication as that which is not verbal communication? Explain your answer and discuss with the class.
- Choose a television personality you admire. What do you like about this person? Watch several minutes of this person with the sound turned off and make notes of the nonverbal expressions you observe. Turn the sound back on and make notes of their tone of voice, timing, and other audible expressions. Discuss your results with a classmate.
- Find a program that focuses on microexpressions and write a summary of how they play a role in the program. Share and compare with classmates.
- Create a survey that addresses the issue of which people trust more, nonverbal or verbal messages. Ask an equal number of men and women and compare your results with those of your classmates.
- Search for information on the reliability and admissibility of results from polygraph (lie detector) tests. Share your findings with classmates.
- See how long and how much you can get done during the day without the use of verbal messages.
- Case application. Return to the Opening Case. List three specific nonverbal cues Zephyrine should watch for in Wendell during the first three minutes of his visit to the foundry. For each cue, explain what you think it might mean and what she should do in response.
- Case application. Cordelia is in tears by the lighting rig. Drawing on the principle that we believe nonverbal communication more than verbal, describe two things Zephyrine can do with her body in the next ninety seconds that will communicate “I see you, I’ve got you, we are not in crisis” more effectively than any words.
11.2 Types of Nonverbal Communication
Learning Objectives
- Describe the similarities and differences among the eight general types of nonverbal communication.
- Apply Hall’s four proxemic zones to a real workplace or performance setting and predict how a space violation will affect communication.
- Explain how chronemic expectations vary across cultures and how a speaker can honor the audience’s time.
- Evaluate the role that artifacts, including tattoos and body art, play in professional first impressions, using current research.
- Analyze how the physical environment of a communication setting shapes the nonverbal dynamics of that setting.
Now that we’ve discussed the general principles that apply to nonverbal communication, let’s examine eight types of nonverbal communication to further understand this challenging aspect of communication:
- Space
- Time
- Physical characteristics
- Body movements
- Touch
- Paralanguage
- Artifacts
- Environment
Space
When we discuss space in a nonverbal context, we mean the space between objects and people. Space is often associated with social rank and is an important part of business communication. Who gets the corner office? Why is the head of the table important, and who gets to sit there?
People from diverse cultures may have different normative space expectations. If you’re from a large urban area, having people stand close to you may be normal. If you’re from a rural area or a culture where people expect more space, someone may be standing “too close” for comfort and not know it.
Edward T. Hall, serving in the European and South Pacific Regions in the Corps of Engineers during World War II, traveled around the globe. As he moved from one place to another, he noticed that people in different countries kept different distances from each other. In France, they stood closer to each other than they did in England. Hall wondered why that was and began to study what he called proxemics, or the study of the human use of space and distance in communication.[9]
In The Hidden Dimension, he indicated there are two main aspects of space: territory and personal space.[10] Hall drew on anthropology to address the concepts of dominance and submission, and noted that the more powerful person often claims more space. This plays an important role in modern society, from who gets the corner office to how we negotiate space between vehicles. Road rage is increasingly common where overcrowding occurs, and as more vehicles occupy the same roads, tensions over space are predictable.
Territory is related to control. As a way of establishing control over your own room, maybe you painted it your favorite color, or put up posters that represent your interests or things you consider unique about yourself. Families or households often mark their space by putting up fences or walls around their houses. This sense of a right to control your space is implicit in territory. Territory means the space you claim as your own, are responsible for, or are willing to defend.
The second aspect Hall highlights is personal space, or the “bubble” of space surrounding each individual. As you walk down a flight of stairs, which side do you choose? We may choose the right side because we’ve learned that’s what’s expected, and people coming up the same stair choose their right. The right choice ensures that personal space isn’t compromised. But what happens when someone comes up the wrong side? They violate the understood rules of movement and often correct themselves. But what happens if they don’t change lanes as people move up and down the stairs? They may get dirty looks or even get bumped as people in the crowd handle the invasion of “their” space. There are no lane markers, and bubbles of space around each person move with them, allowing for the possibility of collision.
We recognize the basic need for personal space, but the normative expectations for space vary greatly by culture. You may perceive that in your home people sleep one to each bed, but in many cultures people sleep two or more to a bed and it’s considered normal. If you were to share that bed, you might feel uncomfortable, while someone raised with group sleeping norms might feel uncomfortable sleeping alone. From where you stand in an aerobics class in relation to others, to where you place your book bag in class, your personal expectations of space are often at variance with others.
As the context of a staircase has norms for nonverbal behavior, so does the public speaking context. In North America, eye contact with the audience is expected. Big movements and gestures aren’t generally expected and can be distracting. The speaker occupies a space on the “stage,” even if it’s in front of the class. When you occupy that space, the audience will expect you to behave in certain ways. If you talk to the screen behind you while displaying a PowerPoint presentation, the audience may perceive that you’re not paying attention to them. Speakers are expected to pay attention to, and interact with, the audience, even if the feedback is primarily nonverbal. Your movements should coordinate with the tone, rhythm, and content of your speech. Pacing back and forth, keeping your hands in your pockets, or crossing your arms may communicate nervousness, or even defensiveness, and detract from your speech.

As a general rule, try to act naturally, as if you were telling a friend a story, so that your body will relax and your nonverbal gestures will come more naturally. Practice is key to your level of comfort; the more practice you get, the more comfortable and less intimidating it will seem to you.
Hall articulated four main categories of distance used in communication as shown in Figure 11.2 “Space: Four Main Categories of Distance”.[11]
Case Connection: Where Does Wendell Stand?
The Crucible’s foundry has a 40-foot throw from the edge of the performance floor to the audience risers. When Wendell arrives, Zephyrine has a choice. She can greet him at the rolling door—social-space distance, 4 to 12 feet—and walk with him toward the lighting console. She can meet him at the lighting console—still social space, but with a technical object between them that signals “I am the expert here.” Or she can greet him already standing at the edge of the dance floor, inviting him to step into the performance zone with her. Each choice puts Wendell into a different proxemic frame. Given that he is known to use dominance as a test, which one would you recommend, and why?
Time
Do you know what time it is? How aware you are of time varies by culture and normative expectations of adherence (or ignorance) of time. Some people, and the communities and cultures they represent, are very time-oriented. Think about your expectations for time. When you make an appointment with a doctor, you expect to wait for a certain amount of time. If you were meeting a friend for lunch, you might consider arriving a few minutes late to be acceptable. However, in a professional context, being late for a meeting is often considered a sign of disrespect. Chronemics, the study of how we refer to and perceive time, highlights how our expectations for punctuality and timing vary depending on the context and culture.
“Time is money” is a common saying across many cultures, and reveals a high value for time. In social contexts, it often reveals social status and power. Who are you willing to wait for? A doctor for an office visit when you’re sick? A potential employer for a job interview? Your significant other or children? Sometimes we get impatient, and our impatience underscores our value for time.
When you give a presentation, does your audience have to wait for you? Time is a relevant factor in the communication process in your speech. The best way to show your audience respect is to honor the time expectation associated with your speech. Always try to stop speaking before the audience stops listening; if the audience perceives that you’ve “gone over time,” they’ll be less willing to listen. This, in turn, will have a negative impact on your ability to communicate your message.
Suppose you’re presenting a speech that has three main points. Your audience expects you to regulate the time and attention to each point, but if you spend all your time on the first two points and rush through the third, your speech won’t be balanced and will lose rhythm. The speaker occupies a position of some power, but it’s the audience that gives them that position. By displaying respect and maintaining balance, you’ll move through your points more effectively.
Chronemics is the study of how we refer to and perceive time. Tom Bruneau at Radford University has spent a lifetime investigating how time interacts in communication and culture.[12] B[13][14] As he notes, across Western society, time is often considered the equivalent of money. The value of speed is highly prized in some societies.[15] In others, there’s a great respect for slowing down and taking a long-term view of time.
When you order a meal at a fast food restaurant, what are your expectations for how long you’ll have to wait? When you order a pizza online for delivery, when do you expect it to arrive? If you order cable service for your home, when do you expect it might be delivered? In the first case, you might measure the delivery of a hamburger in a matter of seconds or minutes, and perhaps thirty minutes for pizza delivery. Still, you may measure the time from your order to working cable in days or even weeks. You may even have to be at your home from 8 a.m. to noon, waiting for its installation. The expectations vary by context, and we often grow frustrated in a time-sensitive culture when the delivery doesn’t match our expectations.
In the same way, how long should it take to respond to a customer’s request for assistance or information? If they call on the phone, how long should they be on hold? How soon should they expect a response to an email? As a skilled business communicator, you’ll know how to anticipate normative expectations and do your best to meet those expectations more quickly than anticipated. Your prompt reply or offer of help in response to a request, even if you can’t solve the issue on the spot, is often regarded positively, contributing to the formation of positive communication interactions.
Across cultures, the value of time may vary. Some Mexican American friends may invite you to a barbecue at 8 p.m. Still, when you arrive you’re the first guest, because it’s understood that the gathering actually doesn’t start until after 9 p.m. Similarly in France, an 8 p.m. party invitation would be understood to indicate you should arrive around 8:30, but in Sweden 8 p.m. means 8 p.m., and latecomers may not be welcome. Some Native Americans, particularly elders, speak in well-measured phrases and take long pauses between phrases. They don’t hurry their speech or compete for their turn, knowing no one will interrupt them.[16] Some Orthodox Jews observe religious days when they don’t work, cook, drive, or use electricity. People around the world have different ways of expressing value for time.
Physical Characteristics
You didn’t choose your birth, your eye color, your hair color, or your height, but people spend millions every year trying to change their physical characteristics. You can get colored contacts, dye your hair, and if you’re shorter than you’d like to be, buy shoes to raise your stature a couple of inches. You won’t be able to change your birth, and no matter how much you stoop to appear shorter, you won’t change your height until time and age gradually make themselves apparent. If you’re tall, you might find the correct shoe size, pant length, or even the length of a mattress a challenge, but there are rewards. Have you ever heard that taller people get paid more?[17] There’s some truth to that idea. There’s also some truth to the notion that people prefer symmetrical faces (where both sides are equal) over asymmetrical faces (with unequal sides, like a crooked nose or having one eye or ear slightly higher than the other).[18]
We often make judgments about a person’s personality or behavior based on physical characteristics, and researchers are quick to note that those judgments are often inaccurate.[19][20] Regardless of your eye or hair color, or even how tall you are, being comfortable with yourself is an important part of your presentation. Act naturally and consider aspects of your presentation you can control to create a positive impression for the audience.
Body Movements
The study of body movements, called kinesics, is key to understanding nonverbal communication. Since your actions will significantly contribute to the effectiveness of your business interactions, let’s examine four distinct ways body movements complement, repeat, regulate, or replace your verbal messages.
Body movements can complement the verbal message by reinforcing the main idea. For example, you may be providing an orientation presentation to a customer about a software program. As you say, “Click on this tab,” you may also initiate that action. Your verbal and nonverbal messages reinforce each other. You can also reinforce the message by repeating it. If you first say, “Click on the tab,” and then motion with your hand to the right, indicating that the customer should move the cursor arrow with the mouse to the tab, your repetition can help the listener understand the message.
In addition to repeating your message, body movements can also regulate conversations. Nodding your head to indicate that you’re listening may encourage the customer to continue asking questions. Holding your hand up, palm out, may signal them to stop and provide a pause where you can start to answer.
Body movements also substitute or replace verbal messages. Ekman and Friesen found that facial features communicate to others our feelings, but our body movements often reveal how intensely we experience those feelings.[21] For example, if the customer makes a face of frustration while trying to use the software program, they may need assistance. If they push away from the computer and physically separate themselves from it, they may be extremely frustrated. Learning to gauge feelings and their intensity as expressed by customers takes time and patience, and your attention to them will improve your ability to facilitate positive interactions.
Touch
Touch in communication interaction is called haptics, and William Seiler and Melissa Beall identify five distinct types of touch, from impersonal to intimate, as listed in Table 11.2 “Types of Touch”.[22]
| Term | Definition |
|---|---|
| 1. Functional-Professional Touch | Medical examination, physical therapy, sports coach, music teacher |
| 2. Social-Polite Touch | Handshake |
| 3. Friendship-Warmth Touch | Hug |
| 4. Love-Intimacy Touch | Kiss between family members or romantic partners |
| 5. Sexual-Arousal Touch | Sexual caressing and intercourse |
Before giving your presentation, you may interact with people by shaking hands and making casual conversation. This interaction can help establish trust before you take the stage. While speaking in public, we don’t often touch people in the audience, but we do interact with visual aids, our note cards, and other objects. How we handle them can communicate our comfort level. It’s always a good idea to practice using the technology, visual aids, or note cards you’ll use in a speech during a practice session. Using the technology correctly by clicking the right button on the mouse or pressing the right switch on the overhead projector can contribute to your credibility.
Ethical Consideration: Touch in Dance Training
The Crucible is rehearsing a piece that involves a partnered lift: Cordelia has to catch another dancer at the apex of a jump. Functional-professional touch is inherent to this work—partners guide, correct, and support each other with their hands every day. But ethical dance training in 2026 requires explicit, ongoing consent conversations about where those hands go, particularly when an apprentice is working with a more senior dancer. How should Zephyrine frame touch rules for her company, and how should Wendell see those rules reflected in what he watches in the studio tonight? Nonverbal communication is never only technical.
Paralanguage
Paralanguage is the exception to the definition of nonverbal communication. You may recall that we defined nonverbal communication as not involving words, but paralanguage exists when we’re speaking, using words. Paralanguage involves verbal and nonverbal aspects of speech that influence meaning, including tone, intensity, pausing, and even silence.
Perhaps you’ve also heard of a pregnant pause, a silence between verbal messages that’s full of meaning. The meaning itself may be hard to understand or decipher, but it’s there nonetheless. For example, your coworker Jan comes back from a sales meeting speechless and with a ghost-white complexion. You may ask if the meeting went all right. “Well, ahh…” may be the only response you get. The pause speaks volumes. Something happened, though you may not know what. It could be personal if Jan’s report wasn’t well received, or it could be more systemic, like the news that sales figures are off by 40 percent and pink slips may not be far behind.
Silence or vocal pauses can communicate hesitation, indicate the need to gather thought, or serve as a sign of respect. Keith Basso quotes an anonymous source as stating, “It is not the case that a man who is silent says nothing.”[23] Sometimes we learn just as much, or even more, from what a person doesn’t say as what they do say. In addition, both Basso and Susan Philips found that traditional speech among Native Americans places a special emphasis on silence.[24]
Artifacts
Do you cover your tattoos when you’re at work? Do you know someone who does? Or perhaps you know someone who has a tattoo and doesn’t need to cover it up on their job? Expectations vary a great deal, but body art or tattoos are still controversial in the workplace. According to a 2025 YouGov Survey,[25]
- Currently have tattoos:
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- Ages 18 to 29: 25%
- Ages 30 to 44: 34%
- Ages 45 to 64: 27%
- Considering getting tattoos:
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- Ages 18 to 29: 65%
- Ages 30 to 44: 58%
- Ages 45 to 64: 37%
- Currently have body piercings (excluding ears):
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- Ages 18 to 29: 10%
- Ages 30 to 44: 11%
- Ages 45 to 64: 5%
- Currently have facial piercings:
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- Ages 18 to 29: 8%
- Ages 30 to 44: 11%
- Ages 45 to 64: 1%
However, in a 2024 study examining people’s perceptions of both employability and working with someone with tattoos, the following results were found:[26]
- Collaboration concerns – Recruiters believe candidates with body art would be less pleasant to work with, and that other employees and clients would also prefer not to collaborate with them
- Personality traits – Candidates with tattoos/piercings are viewed as:
- Less honest, emotionally stable, agreeable, and conscientious
- More extroverted and open to new experiences
- Less manageable as employees
- Gender differences – Men with body art are seen as less emotionally stable, but this stigma doesn’t apply to women with body art
- Hiring impact – Men with tattoos/piercings face reduced chances of being hired, but women with body art don’t experience the same hiring penalty
Comparison with Obesity:
- Obese job candidates generally fare worse than those with body art in terms of hiring chances and personality ratings
- However, obese candidates are rated better than those with body art when it comes to direct work productivity measures
- Obese candidates receive similar ratings to those with body art regarding collaboration preferences
Ultimately, body art creates hiring barriers primarily for men, with concerns centered around teamwork and personality traits, though candidates are seen as more creative and outgoing. In your line of work, a tattoo might be an important visual aid, or it might detract from your effectiveness as a business communicator. Body piercings may express individuality, but you need to consider how they’ll be interpreted by employers and customers.
Artifacts are forms of decorative ornamentation chosen to represent self-concept. They can include rings and tattoos, but may also include brand names and logos. From clothes to cars, watches, briefcases, purses, and even eyeglasses, what we choose to surround ourselves with communicates something about our sense of self. They may project gender, role or position, class or status, personality, and group membership or affiliation. Paying attention to a customer’s artifacts can give you a sense of the self they want to communicate, and may allow you to adapt your message to meet their needs more accurately.
Real-World Application: Reading the Room at the Foundry
Wendell Ashworth-Nakagawa will walk into the Crucible wearing some version of Silicon Valley casual: dark jeans, good shoes, a thin technical jacket. Zephyrine is a choreographer: her default is rehearsal clothes—cropped sweatpants, a tank top, bare feet. She has three artifact choices. (1) Match Wendell exactly: she shows up in sleek black trousers and a blazer. (2) Signal her role: she stays in her rehearsal clothes and lets her body tell him she is mid-process. (3) Bridge the two: rehearsal clothes plus a structured coat she can take off the moment she steps onto the dance floor. Each choice is a nonverbal sentence. What does each one say? Which one would you recommend for a ninety-minute meeting that has to end in trust?
Environment
The environment involves the physical and psychological aspects of the communication context. More than the tables and chairs in an office, the environment is an important part of the dynamic communication process. The perception of one’s environment influences one’s reaction to it. For example, Google is famous for its work environment, with spaces created for physical activity and even in-house food service around the clock. The expense is no doubt considerable, but Google’s actions speak volumes. The results produced in the environment, designed to facilitate creativity, interaction, and collaboration, are worth the effort.
Key Takeaways
Exercises
- Do a Google search on space and culture. Share your findings with your classmates.
- Note where people sit on the first day of class, and each class session thereafter. Do students return to the same seat? If they don’t attend class, do the classmates leave their seat vacant? Compare your results.
- What kind of value do you have for time, and what’s truly important to you? Make a list of what you spend your time on, and what you value most. Do the lists match? Are you spending time on what’s truly important to you? Relationships take time, and if you want them to succeed in a personal or business context, you have to make them a priority.
- To what degree is time a relevant factor in communication in the information age? Give some examples. Discuss your ideas with a classmate.
- How many people do you know who have chosen tattoos or piercings as a representation of self and statement of individuality? Survey your friends and share your findings with your classmates.
- Case application. Map the eight types of nonverbal communication onto the Opening Case. For each type, give one specific example of how it is already operating inside the foundry before Wendell even arrives.
- Case application. The 2024 Baert, Herregods, and Sterkens study finds that hiring bias from visible body art lands hardest on men. Most of the Crucible dancers have visible tattoos, and several male dancers have full sleeves. How should Zephyrine think about this research in the context of Wendell’s visit? Is it her job to adjust her dancers’ bodies for a donor, or is it her job to reframe what he’s looking at?
11.3 Movement in Your Speech
Learning Objectives
- Demonstrate how to use movement to enhance your presentation’s effectiveness.
- Apply the speaker’s triangle to a three-point presentation and explain how it reinforces structure for both speaker and audience.
- Describe the anticipation, implementation, and relaxation steps of a purposeful gesture and identify them in a professional speaker’s delivery.
- Analyze how eye contact norms shift across cultural contexts and design an eye-contact plan for a specific audience.
At some point in your business career, you’ll be called upon to give a speech. It may be to an audience of one on a sales floor or to a large audience at a national meeting. You already know you need to make a positive first impression, but do you know how to use movement in your presentation? In this section, we’ll examine several strategies for movement and their relative advantages and disadvantages.
Customers and audiences respond well to speakers who are comfortable with themselves. Comfortable doesn’t mean overconfident or cocky, and it doesn’t mean shy or timid. It means that an audience is far more likely to forgive the occasional “umm” or “ahh,” or the nonverbal equivalent of a misstep, if the speaker is comfortable with themselves and their message.
Let’s start with behaviors to avoid. Who would you rather listen to: a speaker who moves confidently across the stage or one who hides behind the podium; one who expresses herself nonverbally with purpose and meaning or one who crosses his arms or clings to the lectern?
Audiences are most likely to respond positively to open, dynamic speakers who convey the feeling of being at ease with their bodies. The setting, combined with audience expectations, will give a range of movement. If you’re speaking at a formal event or if a stationary camera is covering you, you may be expected to stay in one spot. If the stage allows you to explore, closing the distance between yourself and your audience may prove effective. Rather than focus on a list of behaviors and their relationship to environment and context, emphasize what your audience expects and what you’d find more engaging instead.
Novice speakers are often told to keep their arms at their sides or to restrict their movement to only that which is necessary. If you’re in formal training for a military presentation or a forensics (speech and debate) competition, this may hold. But in business and industry, “whatever works” rules the day. You can’t say that expressive gestures—common among many cultural groups, like arm movement while speaking—aren’t appropriate when they are, in fact, expected.
The questions are, again, what does your audience consider appropriate, and what do you feel comfortable doing during your presentation? Since the emphasis is always on meeting the needs of the customer, whether it’s an audience of one on a sales floor or a large national gathering, you may need to stretch outside your comfort zone. On that same note, don’t stretch too far and move yourself into the uncomfortable range. Finding balance is a challenge, but no one ever said giving a speech was easy.
Movement is an important aspect of your speech and requires planning, just like the words you choose and the visual aids you design. Be natural, but don’t naturally shuffle your feet, pace back and forth, or rock on your heels through your entire speech. These behaviors distract your audience from your message and can communicate nervousness, undermining your credibility.
Positions on the Stage

In a classical speech presentation, positions on the stage serve to guide both the speaker and the audience through transitions. The speaker’s triangle (see Figure 11.3 “Speaker’s Triangle”) indicates where the speaker starts in the introduction, moves to the second position for the first point, across for the second point, then returns to the original position to make the third point and conclusion. This movement technique can be quite effective to help you remember each of your main points. It allows you to break down your speech into manageable parts, and putting tape on the floor to indicate position is a common presentation trick. Your movement will demonstrate purpose and reinforce your credibility.
Case Connection: Taping the Foundry Floor
Zephyrine has the unusual advantage of already thinking in floor tape. Dancers mark the corners of a piece in tape every day. Tonight, before Wendell arrives, she should tape three discreet cues on the floor near the edge of the dance surface—one for her opening framing of Heat / Memory, one for her pivot into the foundry’s history, and one for her ask. Wendell will never see the tape. Zephyrine’s feet will find it. Her three points will carry from her feet up into her voice. That is the speaker’s triangle as a physical anchor, not just a chalkboard diagram.
Gestures
Gestures involve using your arms and hands while communicating. Gestures provide a way to channel your nervous energy into a positive activity that benefits your speech and gives you something to do with your hands. For example, watch people in normal, everyday conversations. They frequently use their hands to express themselves. Do you think they think about how they use their hands? Most people don’t. Their arm and hand gestures come naturally as part of their expression, often reflecting what they’ve learned within their community.
For professional speakers, this is also true, but deliberate movement can reinforce, repeat, and even regulate an audience’s response to their verbal and nonverbal messages. You want to come across as comfortable and natural, and your use of your arms and hands contributes to your presentation. We can easily recognize that a well-chosen gesture can help make a point memorable or lead the audience to the next point.
As professional speakers lead up to a main point, they raise their hand slightly, perhaps waist high, a move often referred to as an anticipation step. The gesture clearly shows the audience your anticipation of an upcoming point, serving as a nonverbal form of foreshadowing.
The implementation step, which comes next, involves using your arms and hands above your waist. By holding one hand at waist level, pointing outward, and raising it with your palm forward, as in the “stop” gesture, you signal the point. The nonverbal gesture complements the spoken word, and as students of speech have noted across time, audiences respond to this nonverbal reinforcement. You then slowly lower your hand down past your waistline and away from your body, letting go of the gesture, and signaling your transition.
The relaxation step, where the letting-go motion complements your residual message, concludes the motion.
Facial Gestures
As you progress as a speaker from gestures and movement, you’ll need to turn your attention to facial gestures and expressions. Facial gestures involve using your face to display feelings and attitudes nonverbally. They may reinforce or contradict the spoken word, and their impact can’t be underestimated. As we’ve discussed, people often focus more on how we say something than what we actually say, and place more importance on our nonverbal gestures.[27] As in other body movements, your facial gestures should come naturally, but giving them due thought and consideration can keep you aware of how you’re communicating the nonverbal message.
Facial gestures should reflect the tone and emotion of your verbal communication. If you’re using humor in your speech, you’ll likely smile and wink to complement the amusement expressed in your words. Smiling will be much less appropriate if your presentation involves a serious subject such as cancer or car accidents. Consider how you want your audience to feel in response to your message, and identify the facial gestures you can use to promote those feelings. Then practice in front of a mirror so that the gestures come naturally.
The single most important facial gesture (in mainstream U.S. culture) is eye contact.[28] Eye contact refers to the speaker’s gaze that engages the audience members. It can vary in degree and length, and in many cases, is culturally influenced. Both the speaker’s expectations and the audience member’s notion of what’s appropriate will influence normative expectations for eye contact. In some cultures, there are understood behavioral expectations for the male gaze directed toward females, and vice versa. Similarly, children may have expectations of when to look their elders in the eye and when to gaze down. Depending on the culture, both may be nonverbal signals of listening. Understanding your audience is critical when it comes to nonverbal expectations.
When giving a presentation, avoid looking over people’s heads, staring at a point on the wall, or letting your eyes dart all over the place. The audience will find these mannerisms unnerving. They won’t feel as connected or receptive to your message, and you’ll reduce your effectiveness. Move your eyes gradually and naturally across the audience, from the front to the back of the room. Try to look for faces that look interested and engaged in your message. Don’t focus on only one or two audience members, as audiences may respond negatively to perceived favoritism. Instead, try to give as much eye contact as possible across the audience. Keep it natural, but give it deliberate thought.
Pro Tip: The One-Person Audience
Zephyrine’s “audience” tonight is Wendell, his assistant Priya, and Desdemona. That is three pairs of eyes, not three hundred. Speakers often over-correct for small audiences by staring at the decision-maker the whole time, which reads as pressure. The better pattern: rotate through all three audience members in unequal but rhythmic passes. Give Wendell the majority of your eye contact, but never more than about eight seconds at a stretch before rotating to Priya or Desdemona. Those small turns let Wendell breathe and process, which is what you actually want him to do.
Key Takeaways
Exercises
- Think of a message you want to convey to a listener. If you were to dance your message, what would the dance look like? Practice in front of a mirror.
- Ask a friend to record you while you’re having a typical conversation with another friend or family member. Watch the video and observe your movements and facial gestures. What would you do differently if you were making a presentation? Discuss your thoughts with a classmate.
- Play “Lie to Me,” a game in which each person creates three statements (one is a lie) and tells all three statements to a classmate or group. The listeners have to guess which statement is a lie.
- Case application. Design a speaker’s triangle for Zephyrine’s ninety-minute presentation to Wendell. Specify what she says at each point of the triangle and what she wants her feet, hands, and face to be doing at each point.
11.4 Visual Aids
Learning Objectives
- Demonstrate how to use visual aids effectively in your presentation.
- Evaluate visual aids against the criteria of purpose, emphasis, support, and clarity.
- Explain how color choices, font choices, and slide density affect audience comprehension and retention.
- Design a backup plan for a presentation that depends on technology.
Almost all presentations can be enhanced by the effective use of visual aids. Visual aids can include handouts, images on a whiteboard, digital slides created with programs like PowerPoint, Google Slides, or Canva, and other types of props. Visual aids are an important nonverbal aspect of your speech that you can control. Once you’ve chosen a topic, you need to consider how you’ll present your topic to your audience.
Have you ever asked for driving directions and not understood someone’s response? Did the person say, “Turn right at Sam’s Grocery Store, the new one,” or “I think you’ll turn at the second light, but it might be the third one”? Chances are that unless you know the town well or have a map handy, the visual cue of a grocery store or a traffic light might be insufficient to let you know where to turn. Your audience experiences the same frustration or sense of accomplishment when they get lost or find their way during your speech. Consider how you can express yourself visually, providing common references, illustrations, and images that lead the audience to understand your point or issue.
Visual aids accomplish several goals:
- Make your speech more interesting
- Enhance your credibility as a speaker
- Serve as guides to transitions, helping the audience stay on track
- Communicate complex or intriguing information in a short period of time
- Reinforce your verbal message
- Help the audience use and retain the information
Purpose, Emphasis, Support, and Clarity
When you look at your presentation from an audience member’s perspective, you might consider how to distinguish the main points from the rest of the information. You might also consider the relationships being presented between ideas or concepts, or how other aspects of the presentation can complement the oral message.
Your audience naturally will want to know why you’re presenting the visual aid. The purpose of each visual aid should be clear and almost speak for itself. If you can’t quickly grasp the purpose of a visual aid in a speech, you have to honestly consider whether it should be used in the first place. Visual aids can significantly develop the message of a speech, but they must be used for a specific purpose that the audience can easily recognize.
Perhaps you want to highlight a trend between two related issues, such as socioeconomic status and educational attainment. A line graph might show effectively how, as socioeconomic status rises, educational attainment also rises. This use of a visual aid can provide emphasis, effectively highlighting key words, ideas, or relationships for the audience.
Visual aids can also provide necessary support for your position. Audience members may question your assertion of the relationship between socioeconomic status and educational attainment. To support your argument, you might include on the slide, “According to the U.S. Department of Education Study no. 12345,” or even use an image of the Department of Education Web page projected on a large screen. You might consider showing similar studies in graphic form, illustrating similarities across a wide range of research.
Clarity is key in the use of visual aids. One way to improve clarity is to limit the number of words on a PowerPoint slide. No more than ten words per slide, with a font large enough to be read at the back of the room or auditorium, is a good rule of thumb. Key images that have a clear relationship to the verbal message can also improve clarity. You may also choose to illustrate the same data successively in two distinct formats, perhaps a line graph followed by two pie graphs. Your central goal is to ensure your visual aid is clear.
Methods and Materials
If you’ve been asked to give a presentation on a new product idea that a team within your organization is considering, how might you approach the challenge? You may consider a chronological organization pattern, starting with background, current market, and a trend analysis of what’s to come—fair enough, but how will you make it vivid for your audience? Representing information visually is a significant challenge, and you have several options.
You may choose to use a chart or diagram to show a timeline of events to date, from the first meeting about the proposed product to the results from the latest focus group. This timeline may work for you, but let’s say you’d like to get into the actual decision-making process that motivated your team to design the product with specific features in the first place. You may decide to use decision trees (or tree diagrams) showing the variables and products in place at the beginning of your discussions, and how each decision led to the next, bringing you to the decision-making point where you are today.
To complement this comprehensive guide and facilitate the transition to current content areas of questions, you may use a bar or pie graph to show the percentage of competing products in the market. Suppose you have access to the Internet and a projector. In that case, you may use a topographical map showing a three-dimensional rendering of the local areas where your product is most likely to be attractive. If actual hills and valleys have nothing to do with your project, you can still represent the data you’ve collected in three dimensions. Then you may show a comparable graph illustrating the distribution of products and their relative degree of market penetration.
Finally, you may move to the issue of results, and present the audience with a model of your product and one from a competitor, asking which they prefer. The object may be just the visual aid you need to make your point and reinforce the residual message. When we can see, feel, touch, or be in close proximity to an object, it often has a greater impact. In a world of digital images and special effects, objects presented in real time can still have a positive effect on the audience.
Additional visual aids you may choose include—but aren’t limited to—sound and music, video, and even yourself. If your speech is about how to use the product, your demonstration may be the best visual aid.
You’ll want to consider how to portray your chart, graph, or object when using your visual aids. The chalk or whiteboard is a common way of presenting visual aids, but it can get messy. Your instructor may write keywords or diagrams on the boards while discussing a textbook chapter, but can you read their writing? The same lesson holds for you. If you’re going to use a whiteboard and have a series of words on it, write them out clearly before you start your presentation.
Flip charts on a pedestal can also serve to show a series of steps or break a chart down into its basic components. A poster board is another common way of organizing your visual aids before a speech, but given its often one-time use, it’s losing out to the computer screen. It is, however, portable and allows you a large “blank page” with which to express your ideas.
Handouts may also serve to communicate complex or detailed information to the audience, but be careful never to break handout rule number one: never give handouts to the audience at the beginning of your speech. Where do you want the audience to look—at you or the handout? Many novice speakers might be tempted to read the handout, but you’ll no doubt recognize how that diverts and divides the audience’s attention. People will listen to the words from the handout in their minds and tune you out. They’ll read at their own pace and have questions. They may even be impolite enough to use them as fans or paper airplanes. Handouts can be your worst enemy. If you need to use one, state at the beginning of the speech that you’ll be providing one at the conclusion of your presentation. This will alleviate the audience’s worry about capturing all your content by taking notes, and keep their attention focused on you while you speak.
Transparencies and slides have been replaced by computer-generated slide show programs like PowerPoint by Microsoft, which we’ll discuss in greater detail later in this section. These programs can be very helpful in presenting visual information, but because computers and projectors sometimes break down and fail to work as planned, you need a plan B. You may need a poster board, or to write on the whiteboard, or to have a handout in reserve, but a Plan B is always a good idea when it comes to presentations that integrate technology. You may arrive at your destination and find the equipment is no longer available, is incompatible with your media storage device, or is simply not working, but the show must go on.
Video clips, such as those you might find on YouTube, can also be effective visual aids. However, as with handouts, there’s one concern: You don’t want the audience to want to watch the video more than they want to tune into your presentation. How do you prevent this? Keep the clip short and make sure it reinforces the central message of your presentation. Always stop speaking before the audience stops listening, and the same holds true for the mesmerizing force of moving images on a screen. People are naturally attracted to them and will get “sucked into” your video example rather quickly. Be a good editor, introduce the clip and state what will happen out loud, point out a key aspect of it to the audience while it plays (overlap), and then make a clear transitional statement as you turn it off. Transitions are often the most challenging part of any speech, as the audience can get off track, and video clips are one of the most challenging visual aids you can choose because of their power to attract attention. Use that power wisely.
Common Mistake: When the Dance Is the Visual Aid
Zephyrine’s strongest possible visual aid for Heat / Memory is Heat / Memory. The biggest mistake she could make tonight is to build a slide deck that describes the piece. If she shows Wendell a twenty-minute tech-rehearsal excerpt of the actual choreography with clear framing before and after, the dance is its own argument. The deck should stay in her laptop bag as a backup for weather, power, or injury, not as a replacement for the medium itself.
Preparing Visual Aids
Get started early so that you have time to create or research visual aids that will truly support your presentation, not just provide “fluff.” Make sure you use a font or image large enough to be legible for those in the back of the room, and that you actually test your visual aids before the day of your presentation. Ask a friend to stand at the back of the room and read or interpret your visual aid. If you’re using computer-generated slides, try them out in a practice setting, not just on your computer screen. The slides will look different when projected. Allow time for revision based on what you learn.
Your visual aids should meet the following criteria:
- Big. They should be legible for everyone and “back row certified.”
- Clear. Your audience should “get it” the first time they see it.
- Simple. They should serve to simplify the concepts they illustrate.
- Consistent. They should reinforce continuity by using the same visual style.
Using Visual Aids
Here are three general guidelines to follow when using visual aids.[29] Here are some dos and don’ts:
- Do make a clear connection between your words and the visual aid for the audience.
- Don’t distract the audience with your visual aid, blocking their view of you, or adjusting the visual aid repeatedly while trying to speak.
- Do speak to your audience, not to the whiteboard, the video, or other visual aids.
The timing of your presentation and your visual aids can also have good or bad consequences. According to a popular joke, a good way to get your boss to approve just about anything is to schedule a meeting after lunch, turn the lights down, and present some boring PowerPoint slides. While the idea of a drowsy boss signing off on a harebrained project is amusing, in reality, you’ll want to use visual aids not as a sleeping potion but as a strategy to keep your presentation lively and interesting.
Becoming proficient at using visual aids takes time and practice, and the more you practice before your speech, the more comfortable you’ll be with your visual aids and the role they serve in illustrating your points. Planning before speaking will help, but when it comes time to actually give your speech, make sure they work for the audience as they should. Speaking to a visual aid (or reading it with your back to the audience) isn’t an effective strategy. You should know your material well enough that you refer to a visual aid rather than relying on it.
Using PowerPoint as a Visual Aid
PowerPoint and similar visual representation programs can be an effective tool to help audiences remember your message, but they can also be an annoying distraction to your speech. How you prepare your slides and use the tool will determine your effectiveness.
PowerPoint is a slide presentation program that you’ve no doubt seen used in class, a presentation at work, or perhaps used yourself to support a presentation. PowerPoint and similar slideware programs provide templates for creating electronic slides to present visual information to the audience, reinforcing the verbal message. You’ll be able to import, or cut and paste, words from text files, images, or video clips to create slides to represent your ideas. You can even incorporate Web links. When using any software program, it’s always a good idea to experiment with it long before you intend to use it, explore its many options and functions, and see how it can be an effective tool for you.
PowerPoint slides can connect words with images.
At first, you might be overwhelmed by the possibilities, and you might be tempted to use all the bells, whistles, and sound effects, not to mention the tumbling, flying, and animated graphics. If used wisely, a dissolve or key transition can be like a well-executed scene from a major motion picture film and lead your audience to the next point. But if used indiscriminately, it can annoy the audience to the point where they cringe in anticipation of the sound effect at the start of each slide. This danger is inherent in the tool, but you’re in charge of it and can make wise choices that enhance the understanding and retention of your information.
The first point to consider is what is the most important visual aid? The answer is you, the speaker. You’ll facilitate the discussion, bring the information to life, and help the audience correlate the content to your goal or purpose. You don’t want to be in a position where the PowerPoint presentation is the main focus and you’re on the side of the stage, simply helping the audience follow along. It should support you in your presentation, rather than the other way around. Just as there’s a number one rule for handouts, there’s also one for PowerPoints: don’t use PowerPoints as a read-aloud script for your speech. The PowerPoints should amplify and illustrate your main points, not reproduce everything you’re going to say.
Your pictures are the second area of emphasis you’ll want to consider. The tool will allow you to show graphs, charts, and illustrate relationships that words may only approach in terms of communication. Still, your verbal support of the visual images will make all the difference. Dense pictures or complicated graphics will confuse more than clarify. Choose clear images that have an immediate connection to both your content and the audience, tailored to their specific needs. After images, consider only keywords that are easily readable to accompany your pictures. The fewer words, the better. Try to keep each slide to a total word count of less than ten words. Don’t use full sentences. Using keywords provides support for your verbal discussion, guiding you and your audience. The keywords can serve as signposts or signal words related to key ideas.
A natural question at this point is, “How do I communicate complex information simply?” The answer comes with several options. The visual representation on the screen is for support and illustration. Should you need to communicate more technical, complex, or in-depth information visually, consider preparing a handout to distribute at the conclusion of your speech. You may also consider using a printout of your slide show with a “notes” section. Still, if you distribute it at the beginning of your speech, you run the risk of turning your presentation into a guided reading exercise and possibly distracting or losing members of the audience. Everyone reads at a different pace and takes notes in their way. You don’t want to be in the position of switching between slides to help people follow along.
Another point to consider is how you want to use the tool to support your speech and how your audience will interpret your presentation. Most audiences wouldn’t want to read a page of text—as you might see in this book—on the big screen. They’ll be far more likely to glance at the screen and assess the information you present in relation to your discussion. Therefore, it’s key to consider one main idea, relationship, or point per slide. The use of the tool should be guided by the idea that its presentation is for the audience’s benefit, not yours. People often understand pictures and images more quickly and easily than text, and you can use this to your advantage, using the knowledge that a picture is worth a thousand words.
Use of Color
People love color, and understandably, your audience will appreciate the visual stimulation of a colorful presentation. If you’ve ever seen a car painted a custom color that didn’t attract you, or seen colors put together in ways that made you wonder what people were thinking when they did that, you’ll recognize that color can also distract and turn off an audience.
Color is a powerful way to present information, and the power should be used wisely. You’ll be selecting which color you want to use for headers or keywords, and how they relate to the colors in the visual images. Together, your images, keywords, and the use of color in fonts, backgrounds, tables, and graphs can have a significant impact on your audience. You’ll need to give some thought and consideration to what type of impact you want to make, how it will contribute or possibly distract, and what will work well for you to produce an effective and impressive presentation.
There are inherent relationships between colors, and while you may have covered some of this information in art classes you’ve taken, it’s valuable to review here. According to the standard color wheel, colors are grouped into primary, secondary, and tertiary categories. Primary colors are the colors from which other colors are made through various combinations. Secondary colors represent a combination of two primary colors, while tertiary colors are made from combinations of primary and secondary colors.
- Primary colors. Red, blue, and yellow
- Secondary colors. Green, violet, and orange
- Tertiary colors. Red-orange, red-violet, blue-violet, blue-green, yellow-orange, and yellow-green
Colors have relationships depending on their location on the wheel. Colors that are opposite each other are called complementary, and they contrast, creating a dynamic effect. Analogous colors are located next to each other and promote harmony, continuity, and a sense of unity.
Your audience comes first: when choosing colors, legibility must be your priority. Contrast can help the audience read your key terms more easily. Also, focus on the background color and its relation to the images you plan to incorporate to ensure they complement each other. Consider repetition of color, from your graphics to your text, to help unify each slide. To reduce visual noise, try not to use more than two or three additional colors. Use colors sparingly to make a better impact, and consider the use of texture and reverse color fonts (the same as a background or white) as an option.
Be aware that many people are blue-green colorblind, and that red-green colorblindness is also fairly common. With this in mind, choose colors that most audience members can easily distinguish. If you’re using a pie chart, for example, avoid putting a blue segment next to a green one. Use labeling so that even if someone is totally colorblind, they’ll be able to tell the relative sizes of the pie segments and their meanings.
Color is also a matter of culture. Some colors may be perceived as formal or informal, or masculine or feminine. Recognize that red is usually associated with danger, while green signals “go.” Make sure the color associated with the word is reflected in your choice. If you have a keyword about nature, but the color is metallic, the contrast may not contribute to the rhetorical situation and confuse the audience.
Seeking a balance between professionalism and attractiveness may seem to be a challenge, but experiment and test your drafts with friends to see what works for you. Also consider examining other examples, commonly available on the Internet, but retain the viewpoint that not everything online is effective, nor should it be imitated. There are predetermined color schemes already incorporated into PowerPoint that you can rely on for your presentation.
We’ve considered color in relation to fonts and the representation of keywords, but we also need to consider font size and selection. PowerPoint will have default settings for headlines and text, but you’ll need to consider what’s most appropriate for your rhetorical situation. Always think about the person sitting in the back of the room. The title size should be at least forty points, and the body text (used sparingly) should be at least thirty-two points.
In Designing Visual Language: Strategies for Professional Communicators, Charles Kostelnick and David Roberts provide a valuable discussion of fonts, font styles, and what to choose to make an impact depending on your rhetorical situation.[30] One good principle they highlight is that sans serif fonts such as Arial work better than serif fonts like Times New Roman for images projected onto a screen. The thin lines and extra aspects to serif the font may not portray themselves well on a large screen or contribute to clarity. To you, this may mean that you choose Arial or a similar font to enhance clarity and ease of reading. Kostelnick and Roberts also discuss the use of grouping strategies to improve the communication of information.[31] Bullets, the use of space, similarity, and proximity all pertain to the process of perception, which differs from one person to another.
Helpful Hints for Visual Aids
As we’ve discussed, visual aids can be a powerful tool when used effectively, but can also run the risk of dominating your presentation. As a speaker, you’ll need to consider your audience and how the portrayal of images, text, graphics, animated sequences, or sound files will contribute or detract from your presentation. Here’s a brief list of hints to keep in mind as you prepare your presentation.
- Keep visual aids simple.
- Use one key idea per slide.
- Avoid clutter, noise, and overwhelming slides.
- Use large, bold fonts that the audience can read from at least twenty feet from the screen.
- Use contrasting colors to create a dynamic effect.
- Use analogous colors to unify your presentation.
- Use clip art with permission and sparingly.
- Edit and proofread each slide with care and caution.
- Use copies of your visuals available as handouts after your presentation.
- Check the presentation room beforehand.
- With a PowerPoint presentation, or any presentation involving technology, have a backup plan, such as your visuals printed on transparencies, should unexpected equipment or interface compatibility problems arise
Becoming proficient at using visual aids takes time and practice. The more you practice before your speech, the more comfortable you’ll be with your visual aids and the role they serve in illustrating your message. Giving thought to where to place visual aids before speaking helps, but when the time comes to actually give your speech, make sure you reassess your plans and ensure that they work for the audience as they should. Speaking to a visual aid (or reading it to the audience) isn’t an effective strategy. Know your material well enough that you refer to your visual aids, rather than relying on them.
Key Takeaways
Exercises
- Look at the picture of the blankets above. Write copy for the left part of the slide and decide what colors would best complement the message. Share your results with the class.
- Create your own presentation of three to five slides with no less than three images and three words per slide. Share the results with the class.
- Explore PowerPoint or a similar slideware program and find your favorite feature. Write a series of steps on how to access and use it. Share your results with the class.
- Create a slide presentation that defines and explains your favorite feature in the program and include at least one point on its advantage for the audience. Share the results with the class.
- Case application. Draft a four-slide backup deck for Zephyrine in case the projector fails, the power drops, or an injury forces her to cut the live dance demonstration. Each slide must satisfy the “big, clear, simple, consistent” rule and must not exceed ten words.
11.5 Nonverbal Strategies for Success with Your Audience
Learning Objectives
- Demonstrate three ways to improve nonverbal communication.
- Design a field-observation protocol for studying audience nonverbal behavior in a specific professional setting.
- Enlist a peer observer effectively, including what to ask the observer to watch for and how to debrief afterward.
Nonverbal communication is an important aspect of business communication, from the context of an interpersonal interaction to a public presentation. It’s a dynamic, complex, and challenging aspect of communication. We’re never done learning and adapting to our environment and context, and improving our understanding of nonverbal communication comes with the territory.
When your audience first sees you, they begin to make judgments and predictions about you and your potential, just as an employer might do when you arrive for a job interview. If you’re well dressed and every crease is ironed, your audience may notice your attention to detail. Wearing jeans with holes, a torn T-shirt, and a baseball cap would send a different message. Neither style of dress is “good” or “bad,” but simply appropriate or inappropriate depending on the environment and context. Your skills as an effective business communicator will be called upon when you contemplate your appearance. As a speaker, your goal is to create common ground and reduce the distance between the audience and yourself. You want your appearance to help establish and reinforce your credibility.
To be a successful business communicator, you’ll need to continually learn about nonverbal communication and its impact on your interactions. Below are three ways to examine nonverbal communication.
Watch Reactions
Market research is fundamental to success in business and industry. So, too, you’ll need to do a bit of field research to observe how, when, and why people communicate the way they do. If you want to communicate effectively with customers, you’ll need to anticipate not only their needs but also how they communicate. They’re far more likely to communicate with someone whom they perceive as being like them than with a perceived stranger. From dress to mannerisms and speech patterns, you can learn from your audience how to be a more effective business communicator.
Enroll an Observer
Most communication in business and industry involves groups and teams, even if the interpersonal context is a common element. Enroll a coworker or colleague in your effort to learn more about your audience, or even yourself. They can observe your presentation and note areas you may not have noticed that could benefit from revision. Perhaps the gestures you make while speaking tend to distract rather than enhance your presentations. You can also record a video of your performance and play it for them, and yourself, to get a sense of how your nonverbal communication complements or detracts from the delivery of your message.
Case Connection: Desdemona as the Observer
Zephyrine does not have the luxury of a coaching session tonight—but she has Desdemona Kalanithi-Brennan, the board chair, who will also be in the room when Wendell arrives. Desdemona cannot rehearse her. But Desdemona can be briefed for one specific job: watch Wendell’s feet. Feet tell you what a person wants to do next. If his feet stay pointed toward the door in the first five minutes, Zephyrine is losing him on environment alone. If his feet rotate toward the dance floor, she is winning. A thirty-second pre-meeting brief can turn Desdemona from “board chair sitting politely” into “live intelligence feed.”
Focus on a Specific Type of Nonverbal Communication
What’s the norm for eye contact where you work? Does this change or differ based on gender, age, ethnicity, cultural background, context, or environment? Observation will help you learn more about how people communicate; identifying trends in specific types of nonverbal communication can be an effective strategy. Focus on one behavior you exhibit on your videotape, like pacing, body movements across the stage, hand gestures as you’re making a point, or eye contact with the audience.
Key Takeaways
Exercises
- Watch a television program without the sound. Can you understand the program? Write a description of the program and include what you found easy to understand, and what presented a challenge, and present it to the class.
- Observe communication in your environment. Focus on specific actions like face touching, blink rate, or head nodding, and write a brief description of what you observe. Share with classmates.
- In a group, play charades. Pull words from a hat or envelope and act out the words without verbal communication.
- Interview someone from a different culture than your own and ask them to share a specific cultural difference in nonverbal communication—for example, a nonverbal gesture that’s not used in polite company. Write a brief description and present it to the class.
- What do you think are the assumptions (explicit or underlying) about nonverbal communication in this chapter? Discuss your thoughts with a classmate.
Closing Case Analysis: The Foundry Premiere, Resolved
Zephyrine put her phone back in her pocket without answering Priya’s text. Ninety minutes was the time she had, not the time she needed. She could use them or lose them. She chose to use them.
She walked to the lighting console first. Tomás, her stage manager, looked up. “Seven o’clock,” she said. “Not tomorrow. Tonight. He’s in the air.” Tomás closed his eyes for a second. Then he nodded and reached for his headset. She said, “I need you to run the preview cue stack at three-quarter intensity. Not full. Three-quarter. I want it to feel like a process, not a show. And I want the work lights up on the back wall so he can see the brick.”
That was the environment. Three-quarter light, exposed foundry brick, work lights warm on the back wall. Wendell was not coming to see a polished premiere—he was coming to see a company that could make something worth underwriting. She was going to lean into the in-process feel and let the building help her.
Then she walked across the dance floor to Cordelia.
Zephyrine did not say “It’s going to be fine.” She did not say “You can do this.” She had spent a whole career listening to her own body and she knew Cordelia did not need words right now. She knelt, not crouched—knelt, so that her own eyes were below Cordelia’s—and she put one hand flat on the floor between them. Functional-professional touch, palm down on the marley. Not on Cordelia’s shoulder. Not yet. She waited.
After a long breath Cordelia wiped her face with the back of her wrist and said, “I’m sorry.”
“You don’t need to do the lift tonight,” Zephyrine said.
Cordelia blinked. “But—”
“Tonight is not the premiere. Tonight is a tech rehearsal with one audience member. We are going to mark the lift. You’re going to walk through it with Matilda at half-speed and I’m going to call the count out loud. Wendell is going to see us mark a lift. That is exactly what the room actually is. If we fake a polished run-through at seven p.m. when Bartholomew is home with his eyes patched and Ignatius is in a boot, Wendell is going to know. He reads bodies for a living. If we show him the work we are actually doing, he gets to see a company that doesn’t lie.”
Cordelia was crying a different kind of crying now. Zephyrine reached out, finally, and put her hand on Cordelia’s hand, palm to back of palm, the weight of the gesture moving upward from the floor through both their bodies. She held it for two seconds. Then she stood.
She had forty-five minutes left. She pulled Desdemona to the side of the lighting console and said, “When he walks in, watch his feet. If they stay pointed at the door past the first cue, you come get me. If they turn toward the floor, you stay out of it.” Desdemona nodded once, sharply, and said, “Copy.”
She called Bartholomew. He picked up on the second ring. She told him what was happening. He said, “Z, listen. Stop trying to say my lines. You hate my lines. Tell him what you told me in my kitchen the first week. Tell him about the rivets.” She was quiet for a full breath. Then she said, “Yeah. Okay. The rivets.” He said, “And Z? Stand still when you say it. Your feet are going to want to move. Don’t let them.”
She hung up. She walked to the back wall of the foundry, the place where the original rivet lines from 1911 were still visible in the brick. She taped two small pieces of gaffer tape on the floor, four feet apart. Then a third, twelve feet forward, toward the dance floor edge. That was her triangle.
At 6:58 p.m., Wendell Ashworth-Nakagawa rolled the foundry door back by hand. He was wearing exactly what Zephyrine had predicted: dark jeans, dark technical jacket, the kind of sneakers that cost more than a pair of pointe shoes. Zephyrine was not at the door. She was standing on the first piece of gaffer tape, at the back wall, one hand resting flat against the brick at the level of an original rivet line.
When he saw her, she didn’t wave. She didn’t smile. She held the brick and she held his eye. He crossed half the distance, then stopped, reading the room. Zephyrine waited three full seconds. Then she said, “Mr. Ashworth-Nakagawa. I’m Zephyrine. This wall was a steel foundry in 1911, and what you’re about to watch is a rehearsal, not a show. I thought you should know that before you decided where to stand.”
She watched his feet. They rotated toward the dance floor. Desdemona, at the lighting console, met her eyes for a fraction of a second and did not move.
Ninety minutes later, Wendell sat on the edge of an equipment case three feet from where Cordelia had been crying, watching Cordelia and Matilda mark a partnered lift at half-speed while Zephyrine called the count. He asked three questions. All of them were hostile in form and curious in delivery. Zephyrine answered each one standing still, feet anchored to gaffer tape, hands resting on her thighs. When he asked why the world needed another dance company, she took a two-second breath before she answered, and used her hand to gesture once at the rivet line behind her.
At 8:34 p.m., Wendell stood up. He said, “Send me the budget by Friday. Not the pitch deck. The actual payroll.” He walked out through the rolling door without shaking Zephyrine’s hand, which Desdemona later told her was the best sign he had seen from him in twelve years of watching him with artists.
Case Analysis Questions
- Zephyrine made a deliberate choice not to greet Wendell at the door. Analyze that choice through the lens of proxemics, territory, and the dominance/submission dynamic Hall describes. What did her position at the rivet line communicate before she spoke a word?
- The case uses at least six of the eight types of nonverbal communication from Section 11.2. Identify each one in the resolution and explain what function it serves. Which type does not appear, and would adding it have helped or hurt?
- Zephyrine knelt next to Cordelia with her hand on the floor instead of on Cordelia’s shoulder. Using what you learned about haptics and the five types of touch, explain why that choice was more effective than a comforting touch on the shoulder would have been in that specific moment.
- Consider the “two-second breath” before Zephyrine answered Wendell’s hostile question. What role did paralanguage play in her answer, and how did the pause interact with Wendell’s reputation as a reader of body language?
- Desdemona’s job was to watch Wendell’s feet. Why feet? Design a similar “single nonverbal signal to watch” for a job interview, a sales presentation, and a jury trial, and explain your choice in each case.
- Wendell walked out without shaking Zephyrine’s hand. Under normal professional norms, no handshake is a bad sign. Why was it a good sign here? What does this tell you about the relationship between nonverbal norms and context?
- Zephyrine’s resolution relies on showing Wendell “the work we are actually doing” instead of a polished performance. Discuss this as an ethical choice. When is it appropriate to let an audience see an unfinished process, and when is polish ethically required?
- Reread the opening of the case where Zephyrine’s shoulders rode up in the hallway rehearsal. By the time she stands at the rivet line at 7:00 p.m., her posture has changed. Trace what changed, in order, and explain the causal chain—physical, emotional, and strategic—that got her there.
End-of-Chapter Review Questions
Review Questions
- Define nonverbal communication in your own words and explain why the absence of words makes it harder, not easier, to interpret.
- List the seven principles of nonverbal communication discussed in Section 11.1 and give one example of each.
- Differentiate among regulators, affect displays, emblems, illustrators, and adaptors. Give one workplace example of each.
- Name the eight types of nonverbal communication and give one concrete example of each from a setting other than the Crucible Dance Collective case.
- Describe Hall’s four proxemic zones, including the approximate distance ranges and the type of interaction that typically occurs in each.
- Explain the concept of chronemics and give two examples of how cultural expectations around time can shape a professional interaction.
- Summarize the 2025 YouGov data on tattoos and the 2024 Baert, Herregods, and Sterkens findings on body art in hiring. How should a business communicator read these two data sets side by side?
- Explain the speaker’s triangle and describe the three steps of a purposeful gesture (anticipation, implementation, relaxation).
- List the four criteria visual aids should meet and explain why each matters for audience comprehension.
- Describe three ways a speaker can improve their own nonverbal communication over time.
Matching Exercise
Match the Term to the Definition
Match each term on the left with its definition on the right.
- Proxemics
- Chronemics
- Kinesics
- Haptics
- Paralanguage
- Artifacts
- Emblem
- Illustrator
- Adaptor
- Affect display
Definitions:
- The study of body movements and their role in communication.
- A nonverbal gesture that carries a specific, culturally agreed-upon meaning and can replace a word.
- Objects of personal decoration and ornamentation chosen to represent self-concept.
- A nonverbal gesture used to adapt to an environment or manage discomfort, often without conscious awareness.
- The study of how we perceive and use time in communication.
- Verbal and vocal elements that influence meaning, including tone, intensity, pausing, and silence.
- The study of touch in communication interaction.
- A gesture that reinforces or repeats a verbal message.
- A nonverbal behavior that expresses an emotion or feeling.
- The study of the human use of space and distance in communication.
Answer key: 1-J, 2-E, 3-A, 4-G, 5-F, 6-C, 7-B, 8-H, 9-D, 10-I.
Application Exercises
Application Exercises
- The Silent Movie Test. Record yourself giving a two-minute explanation of a concept from your major. Watch the video on mute. Write a paragraph describing what your body said while your voice was off. Then watch it with sound and write a second paragraph comparing what the two channels communicated.
- Proxemic Field Study. Pick a public setting (a café, a library, a transit platform) and observe twenty pairs of people in conversation. Estimate the distance between them. Record the apparent relationship (strangers, acquaintances, friends, romantic partners) based on any visible cues. Compare your distances to Hall’s four zones and write a two-paragraph analysis of what patterns you saw and what surprised you.
- The Chronemics Audit. For one full working day, record every time you felt impatient waiting for something or somebody to happen. For each instance, note the length of the wait, your estimated expected wait, and the cultural or organizational norm driving the gap. Write a reflection on what your chronemic expectations reveal about you as a communicator.
- Artifact Inventory. Take a photograph of your desk, your workspace, or your bag. Without editing it, analyze what your artifacts are telling a visitor about you. Write a paragraph describing the self-concept your artifacts communicate and whether that matches the self-concept you intend.
- Speaker’s Triangle Rehearsal. Prepare a three-minute speech with three main points. Tape out a speaker’s triangle on an actual floor. Record yourself delivering the speech twice—once using the triangle, once without. Compare the videos and write a paragraph on what changed in your movement, your vocal pacing, and your audience engagement.
- Deck Surgery. Find a slide deck online that you consider overloaded. Redesign three of its slides to meet the big/clear/simple/consistent criteria and the ten-words-per-slide guideline. Share the before-and-after with a classmate and ask them to evaluate whether the redesigned slides support or replace the speaker.
- Observer Enrollment Exercise. Enlist a peer to watch you deliver a presentation. Give them a specific nonverbal behavior to track (e.g., eye contact rotation, hand gestures above the waist, vocal pauses). Debrief afterward using a three-part structure: what they noticed, what surprised you, and what you want to change in your next delivery.
Discussion Questions
Discussion Questions
- Mehrabian’s finding that 93 percent of emotional meaning travels nonverbally is one of the most cited and most misused numbers in communication. Discuss the ethical responsibility of communication scholars and practitioners when a research finding becomes a cultural meme. How should Zephyrine’s business instructor handle it when a student cites “Mehrabian says words don’t matter” in a discussion?
- The 2024 Baert, Herregods, and Sterkens study found that hiring bias against visible body art lands harder on men than on women. Discuss the implications of this gendered finding for both job seekers and hiring managers. Is it ethical for a career-services office to advise male students to cover tattoos if the advice is based on accurate empirical data about employer bias?
- Compare the proxemic norms you grew up with to the proxemic norms of one other cultural context you are familiar with (through travel, family, work, or study). Where did the two sets of norms collide, and how did you or the people around you negotiate the collision?
- The Crucible case resolves with Wendell walking out without a handshake—and Desdemona reading that as a good sign. Discuss a moment in your own experience when a nonverbal signal that “should” have meant one thing clearly meant the opposite because of context. What does this tell us about the limits of nonverbal “rules”?
- Silence is a form of paralanguage. In your experience, does your workplace or your classroom treat silence as uncomfortable, productive, or something in between? How does the group’s treatment of silence shape the decisions the group makes?
- Discuss the difference between a presenter who uses visual aids and a presenter whose visual aids use them. Share examples of each that you have seen. What specifically separated the two?
- Zephyrine chose to show Wendell “the work we are actually doing” instead of a polished run-through. In your major or your intended field, when is it ethically appropriate to show an audience an unfinished process, and when is polish a form of respect for the audience? Is there a rule, or is it always case by case?
Extended Project: The Nonverbal Audit
Over two weeks, complete a structured audit of your own nonverbal communication in a real professional setting (internship, job, student organization leadership role, service-learning placement, or classroom presentation series).
Week One: Baseline. Record three separate communication events—one presentation, one one-on-one meeting, one small-group conversation. For each event, complete a nonverbal inventory covering space, time, physical characteristics, body movements, touch (where appropriate), paralanguage, artifacts, and environment. Write a two-page analysis of patterns you notice across the three events.
Week Two: Intervention. Select one specific behavior to change (e.g., eliminating a self-adaptor, planning a speaker’s triangle, adjusting eye-contact rotation, reducing filler sounds). Implement the change in three new communication events. Record the new events. Enlist one peer observer for at least one of them.
Deliverable. A five-page reflective report that includes: (1) your baseline findings, (2) the behavior you chose to change and why, (3) the intervention strategy you used, (4) before-and-after evidence, (5) your peer observer’s notes, and (6) a forward-looking plan for the next behavior you will address in the next six months. The report should cite at least three sources from this chapter by author name.
Self-Assessment: Revisiting the Diagnostic
Return to the Before You Read diagnostic at the beginning of this chapter and rate yourself again on the same eight statements. Compare your new score to your original score. Then answer the following three questions in writing:
- Which item shifted the most between your first and second rating, and what caused the shift?
- Which item is still the weakest for you, and what specific action will you take in the next thirty days to strengthen it?
- Looking back at the Opening Case and the Closing Case Analysis, which principle or concept from the chapter became most real for you when you saw it inside Zephyrine’s ninety-minute preparation for Wendell’s arrival? Why that one?
11.6 Additional Resources
Read “Listen With Your Eyes: Tips for Understanding Nonverbal Communication,” an About.com article by Susan Heathfield. __http://humanresources.about.com/od/interpersonalcommunicatio1/a/nonverbal_com.htm__
Presentation Magazine offers a wealth of ideas, tips, and templates for designing effective visual aids. __http://www.presentationmagazine.com__
The National Center for Education Statistics offers an easy-to-use “Create a Graph” tutorial including bar, line, area, pie, and other types of graphs. The site is made for kids, but it’s worthwhile for adults too. __http://nces.ed.gov/nceskids/graphing/classic__
Read “The Seven Sins of Visual Presentations” from Presenter University. __https://www.ou.edu/class/prestech/articles/Seven%20deadly%20sins%20of%20visual%20presentations.doc__
Yale emeritus professor Edward Tufte is one of the top authorities on the visual presentation of data. Learn about his books on data presentation and the one-day course he teaches. __http://www.edwardtufte.com/tufte/courses__
Greg Conley has produced an excellent discussion of color, contrast, and tips for the use of color on his website and has graciously allowed it to be included here for your benefit. Check out his site for more in-depth information and consider taking an art course to further develop your awareness of color. __http://www.watercolorpainting.com/color.htm__
Visit “Presenting Effective Presentations with Visual Aids” from the U.S. Department of Labor, OSHA Office of Training and Education. __http://www.osha.gov/doc/outreachtraining/htmlfiles/traintec.html__
The American Psychological Association provides guidelines for making presentations accessible for persons with disabilities. __http://www.apa.org/pi/disability/resources/convention/index.aspx__
Is “how you say it” really more important than what you say? Read an article by communications expert Dana Bristol-Smith that debunks a popular myth. __http://www.sideroad.com/Public_Speaking/how-you-say-not-more-important-what-you-say.html__
Media Attributions
- Figure 11.2 Space: Four Main Categories of Distance
- Figure 11.3 Speaker’s Triangle
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